My Books

From his many, varied, and even dramatic experiences, Jed Selter has chosen the most important life lessons to recount in this book. His wise and provocative reflections and questions prompt us all to be more fearless, authentic, and generous.

Dr. Noelle Sterne, Author, Editor

I thoroughly enjoyed Jed’s recounting of his unique journey in business. He effectively weaves practical relationship principles into his story. Years ago, I had the opportunity to attend one of Jed’s workshops and used this material throughout my 47-year management career in the Washington State Patrol and as the Kitsap County Sheriff. “Please Pass the Potatoes” is a very worthwhile and useful read.

Steve Boyer, Kitsap County Sheriff (Retired)

If you’re looking for a management and team building book written by a business school professor who believes he/she knows all about the business world and how it works because he/she has taught for many years, then this book is not for you.

However, if you want to walk alongside someone who has lived a full life in corporate America and who has experienced and learned from the good and the not-so-good, then sit back and enjoy as Jed takes you through his experiences with insightful anecdotes.

You will find many useful “Takeaways,” like how placing others first will lead to success for both the individual and the team. Embedded in Jed’s interesting stories and experiences are many important and practical lessons that, if applied, will make you a better employee or manager - guaranteed!

Lt. Colonel D. Michael Lucas, USAF (Retired)

Jed Selter and I go back years in life and business. His ability to grasp the full essence of purpose, passion, and the true ingredients of what creates a meaningful life is commendable, as he has written in this book. Read it yourself, and share it with your children and, in my case, my grandchildren. Thank you for your gifts, brother Jed.

Dennis Broughton, President, Mountain Music Productions

Mr. Selter and I have collaborated on reading projects for children for the past two years and continue to do so.

“Please Pass the Potatoes” is a book worth reading. My takeaway through so much of the book was Mr. Selter’s love for people, and how he created opportunities for others.

Mr. Selter recounts some painful experiences in the book, but I believe we have a duty to share our stories, as he has, to hopefully help someone else. I cringed at the description he shared when he thought the world would be better off without him. Again, someone probably needs to hear that.

In recounting the ins and outs of his management career, Mr. Selter conveys the importance of respecting others. Throughout his story, he provides practical tools and principles for how to manage ourselves and connect with people.

All in all, this book will challenge and inspire. 

Kathryn Stansel, 4th Grade Reading Teacher  

Successful businesses -as well as most human endeavors-depend on strong relationships. In this memoir, reflecting on his colorful career, Jed Selter speaks to the interpersonal behaviors and principles foundational to cementing exceptional relationships. Readers will benefit personally and professionally from the author’s advice and considerations or relationship building employing his “we” versus “me” centered approach.

Gaston Peter-Contesse, Chief Financial Officer (Retired)